Vivaha Samskara

Seven steps.
A lifetime.

A small guide to the symbols, blessings, and promises you will witness.

Our ceremony follows Nepali Hindu traditions, guided by our priest and shaped by our families. Customs vary by community; these notes share what each moment means to us.

Arrival

Janti

The groom’s procession arrives with family, music, and joyful dancing before being welcomed by the bride’s family.

The meeting

Swayambar

The couple meets before their families and exchanges garlands—a public choosing of one another.

Joining hands

Panigrahana

Beside the sacred fire, the couple joins hands and accepts the responsibilities of married life together.

A family blessing

Kanyadaan

The bride’s parents offer their blessings and entrust the couple to care for and honour one another.

The heart of the vows

Saptapadi

Seven sacred steps around Agni carry seven promises: nourishment, strength, prosperity, family, harmony, friendship, and lifelong companionship.

Sacred symbols

Sindur & Pote

Vermilion and the traditional bead necklace mark the union and honour the bride’s new chapter.

Joy and farewell

Bidai

A tender farewell as the bride leaves her family home, held by blessings, tears, and celebration.

Homecoming

Dulahi Bhitryaune

The bride is welcomed into her new home with aarti, tika, and the warmth of her extended family.

The seven promises

To nourish. To grow.
To protect. To choose.

  1. Together in nourishment
  2. Together in strength
  3. Together in prosperity
  4. Together in happiness
  5. Together in family
  6. Together through every season
  7. Together in lifelong friendship

Plan your visit

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